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2012-05-13 21:55:04|  分类: 吾家有儿 |  标签: |举报 |字号 订阅

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       SAT. 3.31

      老师今天让我们把春游分组名单交上去,上面写着我们后天的快乐,谁知老师拿过去就开始“考虑大局,做调整”。有点像马英九当选了,为了大局,还是让蔡英文当吧。老师云:“十二班乃民主之邦也。”That's half true ---- we're democratic, you're not.如果选举是你选你举,还有什么用?我们都成民主的托儿了,不对,是师主。

       老师放学就开始blah blah blah......说因为......所以进行“必要微调”,让“主要班委”负责.....fed up with this pointless dribble.大家都很团结地反对她,顿时乱成一片。There are good reasons for that."微调“肯定是考虑哪些内向的人啊什么的,There is some truth to that, but it's just quite ridiculous. 把那些人放在组里是不会提供交流机会的,因为他们就会自己干自己的事,也不想和别人交流。况且那些不太爱说话的,他也有自己的小团体,为什么要拆散呢?这不是两败俱伤吗?(,做师长的确是需要有点无为的精神,管太多太细,难免一厢情愿----书琴按)

         还有一个“主要班委”的问题----无非就是现任班长,上届班长,上上届班长.....I'm the bloody 纪委!I've got brains!Personality!如果老是那么追求“公平”,那么这些幕后的事为什么就瞒着我们?所以老师的公平只是一般事务上的(面儿上的)。Equal opportunities!(这好像是“YES,MINISTER" 里面的台词----书琴按)为什么不让其他人真正锻炼锻炼,参与组织策划?就让我们到“工作岗位”上“锻炼”。Ha! ( 我儿子和我小时候一样,一旦看穿当班干部不过是做老师的提线木偶时,从此就尽可能回避这种角色了,回避不了,也绝不当主要傀儡,比如班长。这学期他被派当“纪委”---- 书琴按)
       我昨天很直白地当众表达了观点。班里需要这样。问题就是,Nobody's got the guts to say anything, let alone do anything.还有很多人相继提出反对意见,甚至抗议。老师控制不住了。我直接要求xxx(老班长)读名单,大家也都同意了。结果呢?基本满意!所以老师又说是微调的成果。我直接指出,如果不调,大家还是很满意,而且少了争论。老师只好解散。(小子锋芒毕露,不过他才是十四岁的少年,没有那么多心机,并且这离轻狂还远着呢,我心里对此表示赞赏,但提醒他注意态度----书琴按)
        世界不是公平的,人也不能达到公平并且什么都考虑到。如果有人坚持要达到十全十美,最终只是把事情弄得更遭。我不完全相信God,但如果有God,他肯定不是理想主义者。至于这个班级,有太多不敢说话的人,在混日子,得过且过,并且给老师一个假象,使她盲目地相信自己是对的。I'm going to bring some life and personality into this class, and bring some colour into our lives. Always stand up for what you BELIEVE is right。( 嗯,我可爱的儿子正步入理想主义的阶段。理想主义注定要遭遇幻灭,但如果一个人的人生居然没有经历过这个阶段,那是很遗憾的;当然,比理想主义幻灭更悲惨的,是幻灭以后否定理想主义的价值---- 要警惕这种人。)

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WED 4.4

I've been reading Steve's biography(again) recently. It's hard to grasp what he was actually like. Mercurial? Yes. Dictatorial? A little. Cold? Sometimes. I'd like to think of him as an "enlightened being" who is devoted to what he believes in, with all sorts of incredible abilities. Maybe he could have been a little calmer and agreeable, but that's not important. Everyone has a little rudeness and coldness in their character, but not everyone can control themselives. Therefore, Steve is simply " a little bit too honest". Of course, other people can do without these "qualities", like Gates, but they were all persistent on things they believed was right---- Steve was more rash than Bill, but they were the same in some ways. Steve's inability to control himself shocked me, that's why I'm writing about it. But he's a genius. You have to ignore geniuses sometimes, because they have their own ways around things. -----我不确定这是否全都是陶宝贝自己的话语,因为我没看过《乔布斯传》,但我觉得说得还不错。

SUN 4.8

周末的时候,我们和以前住在一个园区的老朋友相聚。他们的女儿比陶小一岁半,从小两人一起玩的,现在只要我们回乡下,也还经常见面。不过他们从幼儿园开始就读的是国际学校。陶宝贝在日记中写道:...... Apparently her school life is more fun than mine. A lot more fun. The difference in values and goals is massive. For instance,they have rock climbing in PE.They write essays for tests,so their isn't an absolutely accurate answer, not even a standard way of answerint. I like that. You can think for yourself for the first 18 years of your life at least.So they have their own perspective, their own opinions on things( we have less of this). We have too much guidance, so we are deeply influenced by our surroundings. 这一段是连在我前两天摘抄的那一篇之前的。

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